Making the Case for Pawternity Leave


A little while back I did two separate articles about furbabies becoming part of the family. However, the one I want to direct you to is the What to Expect When You’re Expecting: Puppy Edition. Puppies are hard work, and while they grow up faster than human babies, they do have a fairly strict first couple of weeks that you need to follow.

This includes early morning potty breaks, crate training, teaching them the boundaries and easing them into their new environment. They also have several vet visits that need to happen very soon after they turn eight weeks old. Of course, this doesn’t have to stop at puppies, it can also include kittens, and new adoptions from a shelter in both the canine and feline realm.

All that extra work that comes with a new pet can really throw you off your groove, and when you’re set in your ways it can be exhausting. When you’re exhausted, your work will suffer and your mood will suffer, and that’s never a good thing. So I want to talk about a little concept that our wonderful friends from across the pond are starting to slowly introduce in some professional places.

The concept is fairly simple. You’ve heard of maternity and paternity leave before; you get a specific amount of time off to care, love and recover from bringing a new baby home. Well, imagine when you got a new furbaby, you could go to your employer and ask for a few days off to acclimate the new animal and get used to the new schedule you’re going to have.

In a purr-fect pun, this concept for your new furbaby addition is called pawternity leave, and I think we over here in the States need to hurry up and make it a reality.

I can’t tell you how many hours of work and school I have missed due to vet visits or furbaby emergencies. It became increasingly difficult to explain to my bosses and professors that I needed more time off to take care of routine vet visits or to monitor a pet after a procedure. And when I first got my little bundle of fur-joy, I felt horrible leaving him alone so soon after getting him, and I was exhausted from the late night potty breaks and early morning play sessions.

I would have loved to have had a week off to just adjust to my new commitment and also allow my puppy to learn the ways around his new environment too. I know, it seems a little strange to think that people should get paid time off to deal with new pets, but I think that it’s something we should definitely begin slowly introducing into the  workforce.

Now, before you start to whip out the torches and start rioting – no, this is not to take away from the wonderful miracle of bringing a child into this world. And it’s not to take away from the fact that babies are much more work than a pet, but let’s remember that pets are part of the family too. Some people may only ever have furkids, and they should be allowed to not feel guilty for skipping work for pets, or guilty for not being able to properly care for the furkid.

We’re moving towards a new world, times are changing, and I think allowing furmoms and furdads to be granted an appropriate amount of time to deal with that transition would help boost the work-life balance and increase workplace happiness.

So what are we waiting for? Let’s make pawternity happen. Like, yesterday.

Celebrity Instagram Accounts: Pet Edition 2

Whether people like to admit it or not, everyone is a little obsessed with a celebrity or two. But what could be better than famous people’s famous pets? Whether it’s the Obama’s dogs or Justin Bieber’s monkey, pets usually make the news. So here’s a peek at the pets you may not have seen yet.

Bella Thorne’s cat Lola

Ariana Grande’s dog Sirius Black

Miley Cyrus’ pig Bubba Sue

Taylor Swift’s cat Olivia

Cara Delevingne’s bunny Cecil


Were those not the cutest pets you’ve seen today? Sometimes I follow celebrities strictly to see their pets. So go follow them today to make your day a little brighter!

Quirky Item of the Week: Cosmic Catnip Bubbles

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(Image Credit: Healthy Pets)

My fiancé has two cats, and I love them more than anything. People always think that cats are low-maintenance pets that don’t need much for toys or entertainment, but I love spoiling our kitties rotten. I buy basically any pet product that is funny or creative, which might be why I love the idea of these Cosmic Catnip Bubbles from ThinkGeek so much.

If you’ve ever spent any amount of time with a playful kitten, you know how hilarious it can be watching them pounce at reflections, bat at dust specks and race crazily around the room. Think of how much more fun you could have by introducing a favorite childhood toy – bubbles!

These bubbles seem like the best pet toy invention since the laser pointer. It would be endlessly entertaining watching a curious kitty chase after floating bubbles, especially when the bubbles pop and disappear.

Cats notoriously go crazy for catnip, which makes these bubbles even better. They would be a great buy to play with your own kitties or as a gift for a cat loving friend. I know I’ll be checking them out!

The Best of Instagram: Cutest Dogs Edition

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(Image Credit: @montethemaltese)

Oh, Instagram. I thank you for making my photos look better, but I don’t thank you for the never-ending stream of the same type of photos on my feed. Yes, the quality of those already beautiful flowers is really boosted with Valencia, and sure that millionth picture of a cup of coffee looks so good with Lo-Fi. I’m tired of the scenery, food and selfies. Now, I turn to Instagram for man’s best friend. Continue reading

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5 Things Dogs Do Every Day That I Could Never Get Away With as a Human

Dog (Image Credit: Dasu_)

Dog (Image Credit: Dasu_)

It’s funny how strictly bound we humans are by social norms, while our pets are free to be as wild as they please. Just think about all the inappropriate-verging-on-disturbing things dogs get away with doing that we humans never could. Continue reading

Would you… Try

Dog (Image Credit: Jeff Ro)

Dog (Image Credit: Jeff Ro)

Whether you’re going on a trip to Las Vegas or you’re just spending a few days with your sister who’s allergic to dogs, sometimes, you just can’t take Fido with you when you travel. Finding safe and affordable care for your pet can be difficult, so we want to know, would you try a service like

Usually, people either find a pet-sitter (maybe their dog-loving neighbor next door) or seek out the local kennel to keep their pooch safe and cared for while they’re away. Some people are even able to give their dogs a fancy, vacation-style experience instead of just another cage in a row of metal boxes.  Unfortunately, these resort-like pet boarding facilities tend to be expensive leaving pet owners on a budget who want their dog to receive top notch treatment with limited options. Continue reading

Meeting a Dog

DOS and DON’TS of meeting and greeting unfamiliar animals

Meeting a Dog

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The primary rule when interacting with an animal that isn’t yours is to ask the owner first, assuming the animal has an owner. When you’re meeting – or just greeting – a domesticated animal that isn’t yours, however, there are several other rules you might want to follow. Continue reading

It’s National Pit Bull Awareness Month!

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In today’s piece, we are focusing on something very important – National Pit Bull Awareness Day! This began in 2007, started by Jodi Preis. On that day several years ago, over 150 events were held to educate others, and celebrate what a wonderful breed the American Pit Bull Terrier (and other bully breeds, Staffys, etc) are. This year, while it is a month of events, the official date is the 27th. What better way to make a difference in such a positive way than by attending one of these events, or by starting your own to showcase that “pitties” and their owners are so much more than what everyone is led to believe. Continue reading

The breeds some people still won’t accept and why that needs to change!

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Pit bull terriers, the breed some people love to hate. They can’t even articulate why they do, but it’s usually because of horror stories the news (which always tells the truth) or someone else told them. Their jaws lock, they are untrustworthy, you never know when they will just snap, they cannot be rehabilitated are just a few of the myths surrounding these dogs. I’ve even heard people who tout themselves as being dog lovers say that a pit bull (I’m using that term broadly; there is the American Pit Bull Terrier, the Staffordshire Terrier, Bull Terrier…) is the only breed they would never purchase or adopt. The stigma follows this breed wherever they go. My mission, whenever they come up in conversations, whether at work or elsewhere, is to explain to people that they are not the monsters they are made out to be.

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Move Over Marley….

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Separation anxiety, one of the hardest obstacles for a dog, and their humans to adjust to living with or overcome. I think a lot of the time, there are little signs, so insignificant in the beginning stages of a pups life in a home, that they can be overlooked. The crazy greeting when you come back inside after stepping out to get the mail for 5 minutes is just oh so cute! The jumping like a pogo stick, frantic whining and vocalizing. My pooch really loves me! Until one day, that has turned into wide spread panic while you are gone, and not only do you come home to your velcro dog, but your home may look like a someone let loose a few animals from the circus. While this is a serious issue, and I urge people to not overlook it, and do what they can to help their pets, and themselves, so one does not have to resort to giving up their pet, I will be sharing a few incidents that we can now laugh about after having lived with an anxiety ridden dog. It’s been 14.5 years. We deserve to laugh,…a little. And he was nice enough to share with me his most memorable moments for all of you. Continue reading

Pet Quirk: The Dog (and Cat) Days of Summer…

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Since we are officially in the beginning of summer, I thought I’d share some insight in to various ways to keep our pets cool and comfortable all summer long. Some of these seem pretty basic. You might think that these are things that should come easy to pet owners, but you’d be surprised how many pets we see at our office that come in overheated. We also tend to get calls that pets are behaving differently when it’s hot out, even though they are strictly indoor pets. So, turn on the AC, sit back, and take note of the following tips to keep your furry friends happy and comfortable.

Water – Keep everyone and every animal hydrated! The heat affects them the same way as it does us. Except we sweat, dogs and cats don’t officially. They pant, a lot. Whether you are indoors with your pets or spending time outdoors, make sure there is water available at all times, cool and fresh. If you are leaving the house for several hours or the majority of the day, throw a handful at least, of ice cubes in your pets water bowls. You can extend the length of time the water stays cool instead of getting room temperature. When your pets are going to be spending time outdoors with you, remember to bring water with you. Also, investing in a travel bowl is a great idea. They come in leak-proof fabric as well as foldable “rubber” bowls to save space while you travel. Finally, freeze water in water bottles to put in your pet’s favorite spaces. This also works well cages if you have small and furry animals like rabbits or guinea pigs. If you’d enjoy a cold refreshing glass of water, so would your pets.

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Never EVER leave them in your car – I don’t care if you have your air conditioning on, if you are parked in the shade, or if the windows are open. There is no need to keep your pet in your cat on a hot day. Temperatures inside a car can reach 20 degrees higher or more inside the car then outside. If you think it’s no big deal, get in your car on an 80 degree day and just sit there. No AC, crack a window maybe. You won’t last a minute without getting out for relief. It does not take long for our pets to begin suffering from heat stroke, and their is no errand worth running that could be worth your pets life. (Now people, please do not go shutting yourselves in your car to literally test my theory, that would not be smart folks – but you get my drift)

Pick the best times of day to be active with or take them outdoors – You may have to change your schedule with your dog as far as walks go to limit your time outside when the sun is strongest. Set aside some extra side early in the morning and later in the evening to go for a romp. If you dog isn’t a seasoned jogger, don’t force a faster paced walk to make up for a skipped mid day one. Keep your walk at an easy pace, but just for a longer amount of time, as long as it’s comfortable enough outside. Overweight pets have a harder time keeping up as it is, so running them when they aren’t used to it will have it’s own problems. Make sure you can provide a shady area for them to get out of the sun wherever you may be. Some dog houses are made to provide a much cooler spot for dogs outside. We have a dog house shaped like an igloo and I know there’s a more defined reason, but it is definitely about 15+ degrees cooler in our boys’ house than it is out in the sun.

Leave them home – If you have cats, and they are let outside and aren’t strictly indoor felines, make the indoors a little more fun and don’t let them outside. You cannot guarantee that they’ll find something to drink, or a shady place to cool off for a while. If they do routinely go outside and come back home to be let back in, what will they do while you’re out and about enjoy a hot summer day? Sure you’ll hear a lot more meowing and complaining possibly, but knowing they are safe and cool should give you piece of mind. Invest in some more cat toys, or a laser light to keep them form getting bored. Save a little money and save a cardboard box or 2 and let them have a blast inside. (My cat keeps himself entertained for hours with a box!) For your dogs, unless you can provide a cool place to rest and fresh water at all times, leave your pooches home in a cool house. Young puppies and older dogs should be kept indoors regardless for their safety.

Outdoor bathing – While you can skip the shampoo (unless Butch really needs a washing) if you’ve got access to a hose, water your dog down every few hours to help them stay cool and comfortable. If you are traveling outdoors and your canine companion is along for the trek, aside from carrying water, bring a bandana or 2 along to soak with cold water and tie around your dogs neck. I’ve even soaked and frozen my dogs bandana for long lasting comfort. This is a good option for dogs that aren’t too thrilled about being hosed down. Our lab was petrified of water, but during a major blackout about 8-10 years ago, he was so hot that he stood for being hosed down in the  yard and it’s been a piece of cake ever since.

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Finally, watch and monitor your pets behavior. If you are concerned about anything out of the ordinary, call your veterinarian. Pets can exhibit very different behaviors with they are overheated or suffering from heat stroke. I know I get irritable when I am too hot and uncomfortable, and the same goes for our pets. Some may nip or growl to warn others to leave them alone when they are affected negatively by the heat. When a pets temperature is reaching past 103, 104, etc this is a dangerous zone for them to be in. Higher than that, and our pets are at risk for seizures, even death. It becomes important to cool them off, but at the same time you cannot shock their system by introducing extreme opposite temperatures too quickly without the direction of a Dr. All of that being said, as long as you follow some of my tips, and plan your days or trips ahead of time, you can have an enjoyable summer with your pet whether indoors or out. Enjoy!

The life of a pet owner

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I can’t imagine living the rest of my life without having a dog, or other animal for that matter. I don’t mean I’m one of those freaks who want to take possession of any and all exotic animals just because I can. Wildlife should stay right where it is, in the wild. Even parrots, they should be flying wild with their flocks, not stuck in cages. I’m talking about a cat or something else small, furry, and domesticated. People who know me, and my pets intimately would say I was nuts for that thought. You may say, Why? Is she a hoarder, does she have 10 dogs and 43 cats roaming her house? No, because THAT would be nuts. But what I do have is a bi-polar cat and a separation anxiety suffering dog and both at some time, make me want to rip my hair out.

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